The Psychic/Paranormal Drama Royalty

The Psychic/Paranormal Drama Royalty By: Tsering Wrench

We all know that one person-the psychic drama queen/king.(or perhaps you are that person?) Every time you talk to them they are whining and complaining about something. Making you a captive audience. He may have no interest in your feelings; he's only concerned with himself. Initially, he might be engaging and fun, but when the talking is one sided and incessant ,you begin to feel drained.
This person is always exaggerating small incidents into crisis/ dramas. This person may be begging for you to fix their endless problems,sometimes calling you all hours of the day or night. You turn into their therapist.When you try and pull away they always manage a way of making you feel guilty. Often they are very unsupportive,vindictive and cuts you down.They may say things like, "Forget going back to school. You are too old to change careers." These comments can be so hurtful as well as latch into your subconscious mind it's hard to get them out of your head, you may start to believe them! Misery really does love company!

The addiction to drama is not much different than an addiction to anything else. When drama is happening in a relationship dynamic, excitement happens, your body produces adrenaline and there is a rush of energy. People addicted to drama are seeking that rush of adrenaline, or the thrill that the rush of energy brings them. For people that lead a very uninteresting or monotonous life, that rush of adrenaline helps them feel alive. It’s like a mother living her life through her children because her life has become mundane and flooded with boredom. Creating drama means stirring up the energy. Think of it as a thrill seeker trapped in a mundane life. Stirring up drama by creating family conflicts and blowing things out of proportion may be the only expression the thrill seeker has left.

This person exists in our mundane life in spades and then there are the ones who take it to another level I call the 'Psychic Drama Queen/King' Now apply the above but this time imagine them calling you and saying they have a curse on them because they are unable to be happy and successful. They may go as far as faking haunts or other psychic phenomenon. They may be addicted to seeing the 'fake' fortune tellers ; here is a short way to find out Are they calling or seeing a psychic more than once a month?Are they perhaps spending more money than they can afford?Do they avoid making decisions without seeking the advice of a psychic or astrologer?Are you seeking out more than 2 or 3 different psychic advisors?

Obviously depending on your dynamic with the person would navigate your response to them. First and foremost keep yourself from being drained.Learning how to set clear boundaries is the first step. Limit the time you spend talking about their 'issues'. With a firm and empathic tone try saying "I can only talk for a few minutes today." And go on with your work and life.Do not apologize for your inability to belabor the talk as that gives them the power of lording guilt over you.Extricate them from parts of your life whenever plausible.Do not become their 'savior' Demonstrate empathy but resist solving their problems. Be supportive but tell 'um, "I'm sure you'll find the right solution" or sensitively suggest that they seek a qualified professional for help.
A simple visualization:Around this person imagine yourself surrounded by a cocoon of white light. Think of it as a protective covering that keeps you from being harmed.Tell yourself that you are safe and secure here. The cocoon filters out the negativity so it can't deplete you.
no way do I advocate not helping a friend who is in a real spiritual crisis but you have to know your limits and protect yourself. I will go more into the types of psychic charlatans out there and their typical scams;it is truly sad to see some people get very obsessed with these people and lose their sanity along with their bank account. I also have known my fair share of people who create paranormal drama for their friends who are psychics/healers to deal with and often it is out of a lack of feeling loved in their lives.then there are those people like the Drama Royalty or even a nasty ex ,friend or lover who just can't seem to get out of your mind stream. Your drama friends may also complain about ex's (friends or lovers) putting curses or 'are in their heads' etc. and there can be an element of truth to that . So below is a small psychic exercise you can do to really get a person out of your head and life
Have you ever had friends or lover that you didn't have to verbal communicate with? You 'knew' when they may need you to call on them or you call at he same time? These relationships can be fun and for the most part are harmless. These ties are known as Cords and Anchors in the 'new age or psychic community'Cords or Anchors are forms of psychic bond that tie people and animals together.Most of the time we are unaware of these ties. Some are natural, and even helpful on occasion e.g. like when we have that feeling our pet is sick or a loved one may be in need of a call.They also are what makes it hard to let go of relationships that may not be healthy for us.Some Psychically Sensitive Individuals can sometimes perceive these links, and depending on their appearance, can tell two people a great deal about the relationship.You don’t need to be a powerful adept to sever these anchors/ties. All you need is the firm desire to do so and dedicate time to create a clean and sacred space . Perhaps visualize yourself and the person you no longer wish to be connected to, and visualize that there is a string of silver connecting you. Try to without getting lost in the thought,imagine why you want to remove that anchor and send a compassionate energy through the string, then release or unhook yourself from it, and let it go. Sometimes you will feel a physical sensation or it may be energetic that the anchor,cord/tie has been severed.